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Men To Blame For Failing Marriages – Mensa Otabil

Men To Blame For Failing Marriages – Mensa Otabil Mensa Otabil

Many marriages in Ghana are failing because “men are failing big time”, Pastor Mensa Otabil has said.

“Families rise and fall from the men,” he said, adding: “I know you’ll say: ‘Well pastor, you don’t know my wife; you don’t know the girl I’ve chosen [to be my wife]’”. “Who chose her? Were you forced?” he asked.

Dr Otabil said for every marriage to succeed, the man must set the tone. He, however, noted that “some of you young people are children”.

“You have grown in age, but you haven’t grown in responsibility. You haven’t grown to shoulder the [awesome] responsibilities of life. You think life is a joke. You think life is going on a date, having fun, dressing and wearing shorts below your waist and going and saying: ‘Hi’, ‘Hey’, ‘What’s up’, ‘Hi men!’; life is not ‘Hi men, Hi men’. If you have children, are you going to say: ‘Hi men’ to your children?” the pastor asked.

“When life gets tough, the man must push through. If the marriage is in trouble, the man must hold it together. It’s the man,” pointing out that “the reason marriages are failing is not because of women, it’s because men are failing big time – [there are] too many men who haven’t accepted their responsibilities. And I’m not saying women are perfect, but when Adam and Eve got into trouble, [and] God came, did he say: ‘Eve where are you?’ That’s not what God said. [He said]: ‘Who ate the fruit?’ …Eve. ‘Who gave it to Adam?’ Eve. Whom did God take that responsibility from? Adam. … [God asked]: ‘Adam where are you?’ [Adam answered]: ‘It’s my wife oo’, and that’s the problem we are having [today]. We need generational leaders”.

Pastor Otabil also condemned the practice where parents force their children to, at all cost, marry into rich and prestigious families, saying it could be counterproductive.

“You must teach your children respect for people, not respect for money and respect for degrees and respect for beauty; teach them human respect, because if you take respect out of marriage, that’s it,” Dr Otabil taught his congregation in church on Sunday 12 June, 2016 while he preached about generational leadership and breaking clean from generational trends to engender change.

The general overseer and founder of the International Central Gospel Church (ICGC) said: “Marriage does not survive on names.

“Those of you who want your children to go and marry names, they will get the name and lose it.

“Those of you who are pushing your children [to] marry money, they are young, every couple normally starts broke. It is normal for them to be broke. But if they start well and they do well, they have forty years ahead of them to change their broke situation. So teach it [respect]. Don’t teach your children money and titles and names and pedigree and: ‘That family is prestigious, go and marry from a prestigious family.’ Do you know what is in that family?” Dr Otabil asked, saying: “You don’t know what he is carrying and you force your own child into that.”

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Chancellor (1997 - ) Co-founder - Centre for Technology-Driven Economic Development (CTED-Ghana) Founder and General Overseer - International Central Gospel Churches Presenter - The Living Word radio and

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